A few words from my friends

We believe that as we share a Friendship Declaration, we create the possibility for all people, everywhere, as well as the planet and its environment to join together in a positive and healing way. Taking this stand will create a positive ripple effect in the world, like a stone dropping into a pond, that will help to reduce the negativity and suffering on our planet and create new possibilities for people and the planet.

( my idea )

To accept without judgement, to give and to take without ever keeping score, and most importantly to be there, as I am for them and as they are for me, to comfort our sorrows, to celebrate our joys, is the rule that only our best friends remember.

( maryam )

 

(by hassan raza)

(by hassan raza)

( rahul )

In my vision friendship and friend is that "who stand with us" in difficulties as well as in good moments and not "behind us". In friendship we devote everything for our friend without looking his cast age and sex.. Even if one can't help with money matters, moral support is also playing a big dill. You can understand what I want to say..

( komal , nadia, )

 

I think friendship is the most beautiful thing in the world. Friendship is the thing which unite people in the world and make them closer to each other. For instance, we hear about pen friends that occured between different people and those friends express their feelings ideas and hopes. Now, I am going to tell you about a situation I have been through and I won't ever forget it, I had finished my study and didn't get a job for two years. I felt bored and frustated. One day my frind came to me and told me that there is an free job for a computer teacher in a school. We applied for this job and fortunately, the directorate of Education agreed upon our applications and we both became computer teachers. This is my experience with frendship and i think that without freindship I couldn't get the job.

( shumaila )

I would have said earlier that a friend is a friend all the way, but now I believe that is a narrow point of view. There are diferent kinds of friends:

1.Convenience friends (next door neighbor, the mother of your children’s closest friend). These kind of friends are convenient indeed. They will lend us their cups and silverware for a party, they will drive our kids to school when we are sick, they will even walk and feed our dogs when we are on vacation. As we will for them. But we don’t ever come too close or tell too much; we maintain our public face and our emotional distance. We don’t usually tell them what we feel exactly, we’ll sometimes tell them that we are having some nightmares, but never tell them that we haven’t slept in the last five days because of those nightmares. That doesn’t mean that there isn’t enough value to be found in this friendships.

2.Special-interest friends (different courses colleagues, a friend with which you practise a certain sport). These friendships aren’t intimate, their value lies in some interest jointly shared. I would say that what we do with that person is doing together , not being together. In this category there is another usually found friend. It is the so called “shopping-friend”. You can have a friend that is your friend because you need someone to help you decide exactly where to buy what. Although you are interested in the latest eyeshadows or shoes, you do not have enough time to think about that too, so why not have someone arround you that covers most of his time with analysing fashion.

3.Historical friends (a friend that knows us ever since childhood, orprimary school). Years have passed, we’ve gone separate ways, but although we have little in common, we are still an intimate part of each other’s past. These kind of friends put us in touch with an earlier part of ourself, a part it’s important never to lose.

4.Crossroads friends. They are important for what was , for the friendship we shared at a crucial, now past, time of life. Crossroads friendships forge powerful links, links strong enough to endure with not much more then once-a-year letters at Christmas, and out of respect for our crossroads years we will always be friends no matter what.

There are medium friends, and pretty good friends, and very good friends indeed, and these friendships are defined by their level of intimacy. We might tell a medium friend that the day before yesterday, for example, we had a fight with our boyfriend. And we might tell a pretty good friend that this fight with our boyfriend made us so mad that we didn’t answer his phonecalls in the last two days. And we might tell a good friend that the reason why we got so mad in that fight had something to do with one of his classmates. But it is only to our very best friends that we are willing to tell all, to tell what’s going on with that girl in his class.

( ali , farz , munira, sonia, hassan raza, hassan imam, and others )

my best friends are

BUSHRA,

SAIMA,

SADDIQA,

ERUM,

FOZIA,

HUMA,

TINA,

BINA,